10 Things That Have Saved My Life as a Homeschooler

From Gummy Bears to Good Friends...

Naming 10 things that are saving your life is a practice that I came to through Instagram; there are several accounts that I follow that do this seasonally as a way of recognizing and appreciating what is important or has brought delight or made life easier during a relatively short stretch of time. A friend and I often play along and share our lists with one another as a way to catch up and learn what has been prominent in our lives recently.

Last year, one of the podcasters I follow, Kendra Adachi from the Lazy Genius Podcast, released an episode where she made a list of her all-time Top 10 Life Savers. This got me thinking… Now that I’m over a decade into this homeschooling adventure, what are 10 things that have consistently and repeatedly saved my life? Or brightened my days? Or made this journey easier and more enjoyable? I sat down to think about it and here’s my list. These are in no particular order and I tried not to overthink it!

Homeschool mentors - Julie Bogart from Brave Writer, Emily Cook from Build Your Library, Melissa Robb from ENRICHri, Melissa Wiley through Brave Writer and the Brave Writer podcast.
Friendships - local and long distance, people going through the same experiences as me who I can ask for advice, commiserate with, laugh with, and just hang out when I need another adult’s voice!
Homeschool groups + Co-ops - these have ebbed and flowed over time but have provided different support and experiences as we needed them. Sometimes that was a place for my kids to meet friends, a source of new inspiration and entertainment, an outlet for energetic kids, a point of virtual connection during times of isolation, and throughout and still a place where I can share my energy and give back to my community.
Supplies in all the places - it makes a difference to have scissors everywhere they might be needed! I’ve never regretted multiple staplers, scissors, pencil sharpeners.
Games - board games, card games, video games - used as a way to take a break, connect with a child, entertain, have fun, and bring people together.
Entertaining but educational shows – Wild Kratts, Magic Schoolbus, Liberty Kids, Crash Course videos, Mr Betts, Horrible Histories, Amazing Race, Jet Lag the Game, Heimler’s AP History; all of these have added depth, laughter, and wonder to our days.
Gummy bears — so many gummy bears! As motivation, encouragement, reward, treat (for both the kids and for the adults).
The library - every single week, so many holds!
Field trips and outings - a change of scenery and fun break can make such a big difference.
Coffee shops - for my own breaks and reflection time. Often I have tried to set aside weekly time at a coffee shop to reflect and journal and catch my breath. Sometimes in frustration, sometimes with joy, sometimes confused and unsure of what to do next, sometimes ready to share my experiences with others. Getting some breathing room, even if it’s only a mile down the street, can help me clear my head and regain perspective.

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Learning Through Travel: Why Homeschool Families Will Love The Capitol Collection

By Melissa Robb • February 12, 2026

Some of the best learning my family has done didn’t happen sitting at the kitchen table. It happened walking through old buildings, asking questions, and seeing things with our own eyes. State capitol buildings are among our favorite stops, we learn so much about a state by visiting these unique and beautiful buildings. If your family likes to travel—or even just take day trips— The Capitol Collection is a wonderful way to turn those outings into something meaningful and memorable. It is a souvenir passbook ($15) that helps families keep track of visits to state capitol buildings. Each visit becomes more than just a stop along the way—it becomes part of your family’s story. Turning Trips Into Adventures Kids love having a purpose, and visiting capitols gives them one. Instead of just passing through a city, they’re exploring, noticing details, and looking forward to marking another visit in their book. Over time, those pages fill up with memories, and the learning happens naturally along the way. It doesn’t feel like “doing school”—it just feels like life. That’s one of the things I’ve always loved about homeschooling. Learning doesn’t have to be complicated to be meaningful. Our Family’s Story This means a lot to me because of our own experience. Our family has visited 22 state capitols so far. Our first recorded visit was Pierre, South Dakota in 2009 when my son was 10 years old , and at first it was just something fun to do while we traveled. I never imagined how much it would shape him. One of my favorite memories is a tradition he started. Whenever a capitol had a rotunda, he would lie down on the floor and just look up at the dome. He would study the paintings, the shapes, the light—just taking it all in and thinking what that epic element represented. Those quiet moments often turned into some of our best conversations later. At the Oregon state house we were even able to go up INTO the dome, what a climb! Over the years, those visits led to many talks about history, government, and how laws are made. The experience stayed with him so strongly that he even wrote about it in his law school application essay . Visiting state capitols has expanded to exploring government building internationally such as the Reichstag in Germany and Canada’s Parliament in Ottawa. As a parent, it’s an amazing thing to see something that started as a simple family outing become part of your child’s future. Most recently, we visited Maryland’s capitol during a trip to Annapolis. My son is a young man now and living on his own, but when we travel together, this is still something we do. That’s what makes experiences like this so special—they grow with your children. Why Capitol Buildings Are Such Powerful Learning Spaces State capitol buildings offer a unique blend of subjects all in one place: Civics and government come to life when children see legislative chambers and learn how decisions are made. Local history becomes tangible through exhibits, memorials, and stories tied to each state. Art and architecture surround you, often reflecting the values and culture of the region. Critical thinking and curiosity grow naturally as kids ask questions and make connections. Best of all, these lessons don’t feel forced. They happen through exploration and conversation—often led by the child’s own interests. A Journey Worth Remembering Looking back, I’m so thankful we took the time to stop, explore, and learn together. Those capitol visits weren’t just educational—they were time spent together, sharing discoveries and building memories we still talk about years later. Whether your family visits one capitol or dreams of all fifty, the important part isn’t the number. It’s the time spent learning side by side. (There is a Facebook group for this hobby. It’s small but would be a great way for families to share their experiences!)